Embracing the minimalist in me

I have always loved wide open spaces. Free. Clutter free. But somehow I was made to believe that we need to have more in order to be happy. Beautiful decor for home, new clothes to work everyday, makeup, going out and all the things that we consider as fun. My life has not been dictated by what other's think yet there is always that little iota of doubt. You don't want to be seen as weird or crazy. You want to fit in. Just a little bit , you know. 

So I did somethings which I felt would make me look nice and like everyone else. E.g , insisted on renting a bigger house, buying new clothes, buying new gadgets etc. Now I have realized that I don't require half of what I have. That is a freeing feeling. It just has made me more confident about my beliefs and values. 

I have toyed around with minimalism for quite a while but have now begun to truly embrace it. I cannot point at any one particular incident that made my mind up but I guess it just finally got into my thick head somehow:).

I haven't suddenly thrown away my stuffs or given it away. No I haven't kept only one color t shirt in my closet. I am just more conscious of buying or getting new things into my home. I have decided that I will only buy or get new things if its really needed. Not just because I want it. You see, need is a very deceiving word. You have to dig deep into this need to make sure that it is not actually a want. 

So As I start on my journey to minimalism and frugality, I hope I will be able to share some insights and knowledge with you through my experience

Adeiu


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